SAHANA STRIKE

To be honest, that is not the right way to frame that question. The word 'meaning' denotes something singular, there is this hidden notion that tends to objectify things. It tends to give us an impression that meaning comes out of objects and experiences but fails to focus on the relationship between the subject and the object. Life like many things is very subjective. Your meaning would come from your belief system. This belief system like our universe is never constant. It changes from one generation to the other, from one culture to the other. I have wondered if life actually had a meaning, and if that meaning was something universal or something personal. I wanted to know if oblivion was our final destination. I soon realized that I was not the only one who was wondering about the meaning of life, so I decided to ask people and here is what they had to say.

"For me life on earth means a sort of preparation for the afterlife. On a much deeper level, life on earth is like a soul tutorial. Personally, I'm here to learn how to live with soul consciousness."

“Hard question. First be proud of your mom she gave birth to you. Then just survive and make a happy life. I guess.”

"Life for me is a Ferrari."

"Life is Oxygen and Carbon-dioxide"

" Life is a long unpredictable journey, Your plan is never going to go your way but that's the beauty of it and that's what makes it worth living"

" Life to me is a SWOT analysis, to see if the person has taken various decisions according to the situation and to see how they react and how they grow with that experience."

“To die”

" Life is a game. It's all about a key to your success. To achieve it, you need to cross through many levels in the game. If you lose your life then you won't be able to continue in the game. So stick to the game, play as smart as possible, Use the bonuses you get, Collect many points as possible which makes crossing these levels a lot easier."

" Life is what you perceive it to be! Life is just in the moment, that present moment you living in. You think life is a disco then it's a disco. You think it's a garden then it's a garden. Life is the sum total of your thoughts and moments which trigger those thoughts!"

“Nothing life means nothing. It’s just something you gotta do or not”

“There is no meaning. Life is an experience. Not a quest with some task to complete.”

" Life is an art. Its where you live, laugh, love, dance, sing in your own world. Life is something that you have, you can't see what's coming in the future, and you can't get the things you lost in the past."

" Life is all about happiness and satisfaction. 'If you're satisfied you'll sleep hungry' that quote is what I believe in and I believe that's what life might be"

" The meaning of life is to add meaning to your life."

“To give life a meaning”

"According to me life is meant to be lived, it can be easy or difficult. Sometimes good, other times rough. But at every up or down in life you always learn a lesson."

" On any given day, the ultimate aim would be to wake up tomorrow. So far, I've been 100% successful. One day, I won't. But every time you wake up.... you have to create your own meaning of life."

“42”

"For me life means, to earn people and to live with them and to get better together to add this awesome flavor called smile and good memories"

"Live your life and find it yourself. What you discover is the meaning."

" I think life is a journey. People say its short but I guess it's not. People say live in the moment but I think it needs a plan to go through the full journey while enjoying the scenery around."

“To live genuinely. To experience heartbreak and the great joys of the world.”

"Life is easy like a rollercoaster. You shouldn't waste a moment by looking behind to make sure that you don't miss the exciting moment that's coming ahead."

“To get to do all the things you love with positive people in your life. And growing stronger as a person.”

So, here you go folks, the meaning of life.

If you go out and ask people what makes them happy you would probably get a billion different answers. Most of the people would probably say that money would make them happy for some it must be finding "the one"..... yes I agree these are the  things that will certainly help you find happiness but here are a list of things that I think will have a positive effect on your life. I certainly don't know what exactly the key to happiness is, perhaps I am not wise enough but these are my personal thoughts and I hope they help you out.

1) BE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOUR BODY

One of the biggest issues among people is the way they look. Body image is of the most important factor that a person is judged on in this current society.So, if you weigh 200 pounds and you want to wear a mini skirt, go for it sistah because life is too short to be brought down by insensitive, insecure narcissistic, pathetic and straight up ass faced jerks. You do what you want to do. You wear whatever makes you feel confident and sexy and beautiful. Don't be someone else's beautiful.

2) DON'T HAVE ANY EXPECTATIONS

This one is important. Lets face it, we live in a world where everyone is for themselves in other words "survival of the fittest" everyone is too busy pushing someone down and trying to stand on top of them (literally) in a world like this how can you expect things from people and actually believe that it will work out well. Obviously there are exceptions but generally you end up getting hurt. Personally I feel that expectations are the source of every problem. Getting rid of expectations is no easy task. There is no way of completely getting rid of them, but you can reduce them with practice and with a constant reminder to yourself that expecting something is the most foolish thing you can do.

3) BE REALISTIC

Dreams are not supposed to be "realistic" heck! Thats why they are called as dreams. But in order to reach your crazy dreams you must have to hit a couple of mini goals. They are like stepping stones to your ultimate destination. Now while setting these goals you must keep in mind of all the various factors and then determine a goal which pushes your boundaries a little but yet something that you know you can achieve. Be realistic from today in ALL your choices. Try to understand the various outcomes and see what you can do with the available resources and only then make a goal for yourself.

4) BE POSITIVE

Being happy when something goes wrong is almost next to impossible. We are human at the end of the day and generally we tend to dwell on our problems and it takes a lot of mental and physical effort to stay happy. Being positive is a lesson that I had to learn very late in life. It didn't come naturally to me but eventually I got there. Being positive is nothing but reenforcing some hope into your system. Some people are naturally gifted with the ability to cling onto hope and some like me, don't. But the best thing about being a human is, things like this can be developed with practice and some patience.

5) WORK HARD

You have to work hard for things to happen in your life. There is this one quote that I live by from the TV show, House M.D and it is "Time changes everything. That's what people say. It's not true. Doing things changes things. Not doing things leaves things exactly as they were." If you want results you need to kick your own ass and get moving. Yes, it is going to be brutal. Actual blood, sweat and tears may be involved and there will be days where you lose hope and nothing goes your way. There will be people who cheat on you and tell you that you are crazy and force you to quit, and chances are you may even consider it for a second. Yes, life is going to give you the finger each time you make a move but you get back up. You need to realize that you have no other choice. 

6) FOCUS ON THE DETAILS

It's all in the details! Ask a girl about her dream wedding, she would have it all figured out from the color of the napkin rings to the uniform of the waiters. Now thats what the general public lack to do in their daily life. When we are drowning in our problems and we know that we got stuck in some sort of a downward spiral, We can still have those little moments that would add up to something big. Like seeing your kids smile and happy and how they come and give you a hug in the morning or how beautiful the flowers. The true essence of life are in the details. 

7) CHANGE THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU

This is something that is very obvious but at the same time its something that I have to remind you all about. You can never be happy if you are stuck with negative people who suck the soul out of you. You need to take care of yourself before you take care of others so its essential that you be happy before you try and share that. A change in atmosphere is sometimes the only solution. Happiness is your birth right don't let anyone take it away from you. 

8) TAKE A BREAK

In this generation two hands are simply not enough, I doubt even four would suffice. We live in a time where we need to multitask all the time! Kids, school, work, gym, shopping, cooking, cleaning.. and the list is endless. When you can't hear yourself in your own head then its time you take a good break. Now when I say a break I don’t necessarily mean a vacation in the Bahamas. It could be one day dedicated for yourself where you can do whatever pleases you or even take just thirty minutes off and walk around and get some fresh air.I don't care what it is, Just take a damn break!

9) DON'T BE AFRAID

Often fear stands in our way of happiness. I don't know why, but whenever I talk to people they are always afraid of something and it tends to get in the way. Sometimes its the fear of commitment or the fear of confronting someone or fear of doing something that challenges them. Don't be afraid of change! Change is good! It means you are not the same person you were a decade back, Its a sign showing you how far you have progressed. When you are scared of something it means its the perfect opportunity to expand your mental horizon. Fear gives you power and strength even though it feels like the opposite of what I just said. Everything new always stirs up some fear in us but we shouldn't let that stop us. We should let that drive us forward and convert that into productive energy. 

10) DON'T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER

Never let anyone push you around! Don't let people trick you and manipulate you. People like that would often tell you that you can't do something they keep saying "no!". Maybe you have a new idea and you reach out for help and people say "No!" You shouldn't let that get to you.We as human beings get manipulated by our close family and friends all the time. When someone close to you says that you can't do something and you are wasting your time over nothing, you tend to believe them and thats the point where you break and give up. So the key here for happiness is, When someone says "No, You can't do that!". Look at them straight in the eye and tell them that they are wrong and you will find a way to make it work no matter what it takes.Trust me. It will change you for the better.

“Choices. Seventeen-year-old Mia is faced with some tough ones: Stay true to her first love—music—even if it means losing her boyfriend and leaving her family and friends behind?

Then one February morning Mia goes for a drive with her family, and in an instant, everything changes. Suddenly, all the choices are gone, except one. And it's the only one that matters.

If I Stay is a heartachingly beautiful book about the power of love, the true meaning of family, and the choices we all make.”

I give it 3.5 stars out of 5.This book is simply devastatingly delightful. There were parts that made me cringe because of the overplayed cliches but overall the book was pretty great. I picked up this book because I was in the mood for something sad and I wanted to cleanse myself by shedding some tears over an emotionally gripping story that everyone I know promised would help me achieve, but it didn’t.

 I wish Mia mourned and experienced that unfathomable pain that you get by losing someone you love, but she didn’t. She was so distant from all the suffering and so was I, which didn’t make a difference to my reading experience. I didn’t particularly fall in love with Adam either but his words was the one thing that hit me hard. I just wish there was more spice and more feelings involved. Passion, thats right! That’s the word I was looking for! More passion, Mia darling! 

If you’re a sucker for teenage romance intertwined with a thrilling dilemma then this is the book for you. It starts out to be sweet and innocent and when you’re not looking it locks your heart in a poisoned frankensteiner (seriously, google it). It’s a good book to read on a rainy day. 

“If you stay, I'll do whatever you want. I'll quit the band, go with you to New York. But if you need me to go away, I'll do that, too. I was talking to Liz and she said maybe coming back to your old life would be too painful, that maybe it'd be easier for you to erase us. And that would suck, but I'd do it. I can lose you like that if I don't lose you today. I'll let you go. If you stay.”

So If you didn’t know what this book is about here is a little run down for you. 

The book follows a seventeen year old girl named Mare Barrow who happens to live in a world thats divided by blood- Red and Silver. The Reds are the commoners who are forced to do all of dirty work while the Silvers are the ones with superpowers who, you guessed it, are treated like royals.

Mare gets a job in the Silver Palace where a series of events leads her to discover that in spite of being a Red she has a power of her own which naturally makes the situation a little complicated.

Mare is forced to hide her true identity behind a mask and has been thrown into this dangerous game of power and love.

   

         “Anyone can betray anyone” oh you don’t say?! 

Mare Barrow has some serious problems. She isn’t brave she is just whinny and down right annoying. She’s that friend who yells “VAGINA!” when you’re on a phone call with your mum, seriously Mare, can you shut up for a minute? Thanks.

This book is one giant mashup of every single YA series that you’ve read. It has the essence of Hunger Games, Divergent, The Lunar Chronicles, Game of Thrones, X-men and I’m not going to lie, there were parts that even reminded me of 1984 and a tiny bit of Twilight. 

The world building was not very impressive and the plot was incredibly predictable.This book doesn’t really have a lot of romance and the love triangle sorta turned into a love square(Seriously, WTF?). Some parts of the story moved too quickly which didn’t give me enough time to fall in love with the male leads. The story bombards you with well timed cliches and if you are into that then this is the book for you. 

I certainly didn’t hate the Red Queen, there were parts of the story that I thoroughly enjoyed. If i read this book when I was 12, I would be freaking out too. But with all the hype that this book had garnered I couldn’t help feel disappointed. That being said, I’d like to give this book two and a half donuts out of five. Mmmm donuts.